You do not have to come to an agreement in mediation. If what the opposing party suggests is completely unreasonable, unworkable, and/or you just do not feel comfortable with it, you can chose not to sign an agreement. In that instance, the mediator will notify the Court that the case did not settle, freeing it up for a hearing.
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